Paws and Reflect

Paws and Reflect

Interdependence in my relationship with our dog

Another guest reflection from Sean

Jul 19, 2021
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Scout the Australian cattle dog sleeping with her head on her owner's stomach at an outdoor yoga class at the Avenue Viera dog-friendly mall

Having healthy relationships is really important to me. Early into dating Haley, I read several books (both good and mediocre) to look for ideas on how to make our relationship strong in the long run.

After a lot of reading and a little bit of life experience, it turns out that amazing relationships take a lot of work and attention. (Shocking, right?) They also require honest self-analysis — and difficult conversations with yourself and your partner.

Healthy independence can lead to amazing interdependence

Maybe the most advertised idea in the relationship space is independence: Not needing someone to complete you, loving yourself first, and all that.

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