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Responsible Dog Ownership

In my perfect world… Dog ownership fantasies
We live in reality. But we can daydream, too! (And work together to move the real world closer to our ideal visions.)
 • Haley Young
An example of my "reactive" dog pattern mapping unpleasant encounters
Once in a while, we can’t avoid the chaos—and then those experiences stack atop one another, threatening all our confidence just a bit. This pattern…
 • Haley Young
The difference between dog park (free for alls) and off-leash (under voice control)
Our dogs deserve to move their bodies freely—but treating every off-leash legal area like a designated dog park isn’t cool.
 • Haley Young
I don't want the vet to "win over" my dog
Poking-and-prodding betrayal is worse coming from a potential friend.
 • Haley Young
I don't believe in testing a dog's commitment to relaxation
I want my dog to interact with me as a social creature. Of course she responds to my own movements!
 • Haley Young
Manners are subjective, so our dog-training goals are too
Because "polite" is subjective—and the rules we’ve maintained are the ones that most affect our own daily existence.
 • Haley Young
Why I encourage my dog to play with things that aren't toys
I consider it one of our greatest accomplishments that Scout's expanding her idea of what constitutes a “toy”.
 • Haley Young
Do dogs need blankets and jackets and comfort?
Scout is a majestic predator-scavenger descended from wild ancestors. She also likes to be cozy.
 • Haley Young
Is off-leash dog drama really worth physical assault?!
Come one, come all: Heated off-leash dog incidents are happening again
 • Haley Young
Hills I will die on as a dog lover
The more specific a guideline, the more likely I am to take issue with it. But I stand behind some overarching beliefs.
 • Haley Young
Train the dog, take the dog, leave the dog... just enjoy life with the dog!
Train the dog, take the dog, leave the dog... just enjoy life with the dog
 • Haley Young
It’s (still) isolating to love a sensitive dog
But I am capable of crossing any imaginary line my least-productive thought spirals draw.
 • Haley Young
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