Sitemap - 2025 - Paws and Reflect

Say hi to THE DOG LOVER'S BUCKET LIST

My van is broken, but my dog is great! (Nov recap)

Is is strange that I live in a van?

Dog park free-for-alls versus off-leash under voice control

What section of the bookstore are you stuck in?

From afar friends: Surprise campground cats

I got engaged in the redwoods!

Van life duality in California's redwoods

Two best friends finding beaches

I think I've gotta let myself be that, again

I don't want the vet to "win over" my dog

Testing a dog's commitment to relaxation?

Why my dog and I won't mind our manners

Positive punishment and prancing prairie dogs

I get a little closer each time I try

I love when my dog plays with things that aren't toys

Do dogs need blankets and jackets and comfort?

It's just a slip lead

Leash your dog, please (and be nice about it?)

Delight in the little things

Hills I will die on as a dog lover

Gifts for and of an old dog

I am not spiritual (and yet)

Our time runs out: Portland roundup

I hope we have years of still becoming

I love bringing my dog to concerts

It’s (still) isolating to love a sensitive dog

Welcome to Paws and Reflect!

In fact, I think I might wave hello

April 2025 recap: Trying to blossom this spring

What is talent without effort?

On saying goodbye to an outdoor gear affiliate program

They all say that “it gets better” but what if I don’t?

What does "gossip" mean?

Surprise! We're moving out of our van!

Happy third wedding anniversary!

March 2025 recap

March reading recap

Taste, romantasy, thought, and nuance

My weirdo dog likes neighborhood walks now?

Dogs need more than love

I don't know what I'm doing

Why I fulfill my dog differently than I used to

Close encounters of the creature kind

A "virtue signaling" deep dive, anyone?

Why I love to eschew marriage norms

On procrastination and productivity

February 2025 recap

February reading recap

My interview with Carol Mithers, author of Rethinking Rescue

Nomad Haley and Wisconsin Haley

Some things I believe

Ways we've gone increasingly feral

A brief record of parking lot peace

Thank you for not treating her like a retriever

Carpe noctem: Notes on The Darkness Manifesto by Johan Eklöf

One of the realest things to ever stir my chest

Judging without judging

I miss Scout, and Sean, and me

Things that make Scout an excellent campground dog

What's the value of a fox-kit moon?

The pile on of pets where they're prohibited

There is no finish line

Well-behaved and composed and good

Vignettes from the Florida keys

I meet my younger self for coffee

On post-vacation overwhelm

I'm always on vacation; I'm never on vacation

You know, hedging my communication can be, well, prosocial?

What I get out of social media

January 2025 recap

Vignettes from a trip to my hometown

60,000 miles and two years in our converted van

Affiliate links and discount codes

The siren call of shallow sharing

"Under control" off-leash dogs can still be a problem

"What do you do?"

Wonder beyond my little black mirror

Grief memoirs and chronic illness

My ex got married and I went mad

December 2024 recap: Fulfilling my dog, going to Mars, etc

Would you go to Mars?

My favorite fiction reads of 2024

My favorite nonfiction reads of 2024