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Why are van lifers so insufferable?

Brave on purpose

My timid dog has come to love the outdoors

Lil' Christmassy things we did this year

November/December Q&A

"Anti human, pro dog"

What my dog's given up for full-time van life

Things that aren't a cure-all

All in favor of permanent standard time

What it takes to fulfill Scout on days with lots of alone time

Reflecting on my laser eye surgery anniversary

Is this me being a weakling? Or is this me being a woman?

Ways Scout's patio behavior has gotten worse

The first time I made this drive

Nostalgia down social media memory lane

November 2024 recap

Map: Every overnight spot we’ve stayed in our van

How we keep our van clean (with our dog in tow)

How to feel like a “real” writer (or dog person)

I don't want the vet to "win over" my dog

In pursuit of deep connection with just one creature

Living with a shy dog has made me less social

Am I finally past my emotional (over)reaction to my dog growling?

I want to be a published author. Right?

On my fear of being yelled at

An ode to an ancient winery dog

Notes on Monsters: A Fan's Dilemma by Claire Dederer

Utah hike roundup

Drifting in jealousy of imagined lives

October Instagram Q&A

October 2024 recap

“Just because we can doesn’t mean we should”

My dog is a physical creature

Notes on Rethinking Rescue by Carol Mithers

Testing a dog's "commitment to relaxation"

I finally finished reading TMTRD's book

Losing Larry, my first childhood dog

Does embarrassment have a place?

Notes from Hidden Potential by Adam Grant

On off-leash forest walks and "folk nonsense"

I don't think sniffing is like my dog's social media

I'm a rescue advocate who won't say "adopt don't shop"

September 2024 recap

On "owning" my flaws and struggles and mistakes

I thought I was going to get bitten this morning

Reflections on A Brief History of Intelligence by Max Bennett

My relationship might be most romantic when it isn't

Two years since I met foster puppy Joey

Posts organized by tag

We moved to Substack!

Fur against skin against blankets against moonlight against sweet air

How do I even make sense of this summer?

A running list of my dog- and animal-related reading

My Scholomance series soundtrack

My dog is less confident when my partner isn't here

Reflecting on social media, again

Noah Kahan at Alpine Valley Music Theatre, take two

My old favorite park appears to be cursed

Things that bring me joy lately

Is it ever okay for a pet dog to bite?

Goodbye, Ophi

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Work with Paws and Reflect

Bark at me

Podcasts

On my niece's relationship with my sensitive cattle dog

Several short reflections on my old writing

A forest clearing fixes everything?

Why we didn't integrate the dogs while house sitting

Our cattle dog's experience with idiopathic epilepsy

Social and training implications of giving our dogs affection

Financial transparency: How much we spend on our dog

Critical anthropomorphism as a domestic dog owner

How I tell friends to adopt or “shop” their next dog

8 United States-Canada border crossings in our van, with our dog

Favorite activities to share with our cattle dog

Do enrichment toys teach our dogs to be amped up?

Calling people “in” to conversation on social media

Why do dog leash laws matter? (And alternatives to breaking them)

(Mostly dog) stuff we use every day living in our van

How I handle getting frustrated with my dog

I plan more—and less—than ever before living in a van

Are you my mother, Amanda Montell? Reflections on The Age of Magical Overthinking

Van life, public parks, and “loitering” oh my

Still learning from my fourteen-year-old self

Why I love to (sometimes) “leave the dog behind”

The place command: What it means to us and our dog

Resources we’ve used to teach our dog to play with us

Working through dog reactivity? My favorite resources

One* takeaway from each of my 2024 reads so far

Animals Make Us Human by Temple Grandin book review

In defense of reading with my eyes

Tortured Poets Department songs that could actually be about dogs

The meaning of life is not across the world

Diary of a 7 hour ferry ride with our dog and van

A love letter to Cape Breton… and doing nothing

Before working with a dog trainer or business, I want to ask…

Traveling full time means scattering myself

The golden rule: Who’s rude, me or my neighbors?

Life on the road, home in a parking lot

What I’d do differently if I could adopt my dog again

Key ways my dog is not a furry little human

I’m sure I am a morning person in Acadia National Park

“Maximize your memories per dollar”

On BECs and social media messiness

This is the year of memoirs

Farewell to real-time social media sharing (mostly)

Diary of an off-leash dog encounter, entry 15973

“Nonsense Pursuit” days 2-4: PAO systems work!?

Hey neighbors, what if we all played with our dogs?

“Nonsense Pursuit” episode one: I’m memorizing shuffled decks of cards

My tumultuous relationship with subheadings

Humbled is too gentle a word

Would life with my dog look the same sans social media?

Logging my journey to use (way) less soap

How I handle getting emotional about off-leash dogs

What I miss about social media (why go back at all?)

Our favorite dog ownership products and training gear

Always feel like somebody’s watching me, van life edition

Maybe Instagram has made my writing worse

A tribute to Frans de Waal: ethologist, author, inspiration

In favor of retractable leashes (and how we use our flexi responsibly)

Dog training phrases that can make me uncomfortable

Van life with Scout: February 2024 recap

How I reorganized our van after living in it for a year

My ideal training timeline for future dogs

An update on the Paws and Reflect book

Validation I needed earlier in my journey with my dog

Van life with Scout: January 2024 recap (happy vanniversary!!)

How I decide whether to bring my dog somewhere

Handling a “scuffle” with my parent’s husky

Scout’s training timeline: Looking back at five years

What advocating for my dog looked like this holiday season

Dog-related podcast notes: Master running list

Something to Bark About podcast notes: Running list

Dog Training Conversations podcast notes: Running list

GRC Dog Talk podcast notes: Running list

The Canine Paradigm podcast notes: Running list

Training Without Conflict podcast notes: Running list

Dog-Related Huberman Lab podcast notes: Running list

Our (awesome!) house call veterinarian experience

Van life with Scout: December 2023 recap