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Why are van lifers so insufferable?

But I was also brave on purpose

My timid dog has come to love the outdoors

You can't be "anti human, pro dog"

What my dog's given up for full-time van life

Things that aren't a cure-all

What it takes to fulfill my dog on days with lots of alone time

Ways my dog's patio behavior has gotten worse

The first time I made this drive to Florida

I revisited some of the first dog-training accounts I ever followed online

November 2024 Paws and Reflect recap

How we keep our van clean (with our dog in tow)

How to feel like a “real” writer (or dog person)

In pursuit of deep connection with just one creature

Living with a shy dog has made me less social

Am I finally past my emotional (over)reaction to my dog growling?

Do I like the idea of writing better than the actual writing?

I'm very much deeply afraid of being yelled at

An ode to an ancient winery dog

Notes on Monsters: A Fan's Dilemma by Claire Dederer

Drifting in jealousy of imagined lives—others and my own

October 2024 Paws and Reflect recap

“Just because we can doesn’t mean we should”

My dog is a physical creature

Notes on Rethinking Rescue by Carol Mithers

Reflections on Home. Made. by Michael Baines: TMTRD's book

Losing Larry, my first childhood dog

Does embarrassment have a place in behavior change?

Notes from Hidden Potential by Adam Grant

Trusting my dog: Off-leash forest walks without "folk nonsense"

I don't think sniffing is like my dog's social media

I'm a rescue advocate who won't say "adopt don't shop"

September 2024 Paws and Reflect recap

"Owning" my flaws is necessary but not sufficient

I thought I was going to get bitten this morning

Reflections on A Brief History of Intelligence by Max Bennett

It's been two years since I met foster puppy Joey

All posts organized by tag

We moved to Substack!

Fur against skin against blankets against moonlight against sweet air

A running list of my dog- and animal-related reading

My dog is less confident when my partner isn't here

Connection and community, in the real world, because of the online one

My old favorite park appears to be cursed?

Is it ever okay for a pet dog to bite?

Goodbye, Ophi, the last of my childhood pets

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Bark at me

Podcasts

My niece loves—but has never touched—my dog

Several short reflections on my old writing

Why we didn't integrate the dogs while house sitting

Our cattle dog's experience with idiopathic epilepsy

Social and training implications of giving our dogs affection

Financial transparency: How much we spend on our dog

Critical anthropomorphism as a domestic dog owner

How I tell friends to adopt or “shop” their next dog

We've crossed the US-Canada border 8 times in our van, with our dog

Do enrichment toys teach our dogs to need constant stimulation?

Why do dog leash laws matter? (And alternatives to breaking them)

(Mostly dog) stuff we use every day living in our van

How I handle getting frustrated with my dog

I plan more—and less—than ever because I live in a van

Are you my mother, Amanda Montell?

Someone called the cops on our converted van

What I learned from rediscovering my childhood Tumblr account

Why I love to (sometimes) “leave the dog behind”

The place command: What it means to us and our dog

Resources we’ve used to teach our dog to play with us

Working through dog reactivity? My favorite resources

One takeaway from each of my 2024 reads so far

Animals Make Us Human by Temple Grandin book review

In defense of reading over listening

Tortured Poets Department songs that could actually be about dogs

The meaning of life is not across the world

I live in a car, and that car traveled by boat

A love letter to Cape Breton… and doing nothing

Life on the road, home in a parking lot

What I’d do differently if I could adopt my dog all over again

Key ways my dog is not a furry little human

I’m sure I am a morning person in Acadia National Park

To maximize my memories per dollar, I moved into a van

2024 is my year of memoirs

Diary of an off-leash dog encounter, entry 15973

Hey neighbors, what if we all played with our dogs?

Humbled is too gentle a word

Would life with my dog look the same sans social media?

How I handle getting emotional about off-leash dogs

What I miss about social media and why I'm not fully "getting off" it

Our favorite dog ownership products and training gear

Van-life etiquette: I always feel like somebody’s watching me

A tribute to Frans de Waal: ethologist, author, inspiration

In favor of retractable leashes—used responsibly

Dog training phrases that make me uncomfortable

February 2024 Paws and Reflect recap

How we reorganized our van after living in it for a year

My ideal training timeline for future dogs

Validation I needed earlier in my journey with my dog

January 2024 Paws and Reflect recap

How I decide whether to bring my dog somewhere

Handling a “scuffle” with my parent’s husky

Scout’s training timeline: Looking back at five years

What advocating for my dog looked like this holiday season

Dog-related podcast notes: Master running list

Something to Bark About podcast notes: Running list

Dog Training Conversations podcast notes: Running list

GRC Dog Talk podcast notes: Running list

The Canine Paradigm podcast notes: Running list

Training Without Conflict podcast notes: Running list

Dog-Related Huberman Lab podcast notes: Running list

Why I'll never go to a veterinary clinic again

December 2023 Paws and Reflect recap